When it ALL comes Crashing Down!!

LIFE  .... One cannot predict what Life brings us. A moment of happiness and lifetime of togetherness can come crashing down in an instant. But we cannot allow ourselves to be swept away in "the darkness" because there's always tomorrow as long as the sun shines in the morning. We cannot allow anyone to blame us for "the darkness"...the dark clouds that hangs above us...We must always rise and shine again - just like the sun - and hope for a better tomorrow, a new beginning and a clearer future.

When a child has been taken, it cannot be your fault

When a child has been taken, do not be sad

On the other side, someone is joyously waiting

Allah s.a.w sees the BIGGER picture - and must truly love that child!

How is it your fault when one looses a child?

Did you cause the accident? Did you bring bad luck?

Did someone make it look like you caused the accident?

Did someone make sure you do not enjoy the happiness you deserve?

Did someone wish for  this to happen?

Did you wish for this to happen?

...MANY questions linger in your mind but Who can tell you the correct answer?

NOBODY!!

You can spend the rest of your life regretting and blaming yourself for what happened but you will never find peace with yourself that way. You can always say this Life was not meant for you...and you will never find harmony.

At this hour of remorse, nobody can find the right words to say...Fear to make another step will leave you in regret forever. If LOVE is what you're looking for and if LOVE is what you've found, never be afraid to LEAP - regardless of the people around you.

But TO LEAP requires the correct MOMENT! LEAPING forward without LOOKING, without DIRECTION, lands you in Abyss...

Some things cannot be Rushed...Some things take time to Nurture and Grow...just like a seedling requiring Tender Loving Care. Show your support, emphatise and be patient...even at the expense of yourself ....Try not to look back....Consider your 'reverse' mode irreparable...Ensure you also have support to keep you thriving...And when it has Matured...you know THE TIME IS RIGHT!

Embarrassment always comes together in situations like this. However, it is not time for you to surrender...People talk People assume People exaggerate and...People also FORGET! Just like you, they need time to see the bigger picture....soon they will forget and that's when we start Forgiving.

Today may be the Worst day in Your Life...
But as each day passes by
Today will seem petty

Be Strong. Be Patient. Be Wise. BE-LIEVE!!

p/s: To All that have faced being Jilted & Grieving. You have not run out of time!